Inclusive Community for Individuals and Families for All Abilities 
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Smithtown Challengers

Empowerment Begins Here

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Experience a nurturing environment crafted specifically for individuals with diverse abilities and their families. Engage in tailored social activities that prioritize the unique needs of every participant, surrounded by compassionate peers who understand and share your journey.

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About Us

Michelle Musso of Smithtown, a mother to a now 23-year-old daughter with special needs, created the Smithtown Challengers out of a deep personal understanding of the challenges and gaps families face when it comes to meaningful social engagement for their loved ones. What started 13 years ago as a small bowling league has since blossomed into a thriving community where friendships are made, confidence is built, and laughter is shared. Michelle's passion is visible in every detail, from the way she warmly greets families at events to the careful planning of each themed night. For her, it's personal—and it's purposeful.
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​"For most of these young adults, this is their only chance to socialize. It gives them something to look forward to. And when I see their faces light up, when I hear them say, 'See you Friday at Friendly's!'—that's everything to me."
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​ Parents also benefit so much from this. They learn from one another—how to navigate complicated systems, how to access services, how to advocate. It becomes a community of support for everyone involved.

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Empowering Families Through Community Engagement
Our mission is to cultivate a welcoming and inclusive community for individuals with all abilities and their families. Through thoughtfully designed social opportunities and active parent involvement, we strive to create a supportive environment where individuals can develop meaningful connections, build confidence, and thrive. We are dedicated to fostering a sense of belonging for both individuals and their families, offering encouragement, shared understanding, and lasting support.
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A Safe Space
Engage in social activities customized to suit individual needs, fostering an atmosphere where everyone feels accepted and valued.
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Connect with Other Parents
Build lasting friendships as you share experiences and gain insights on navigating challenges while receiving unwavering support from others who truly understand.
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Inclusive Activities
Participate in thoughtfully organized events that not only entertain but also promote personal growth, confidence, and a shared sense of belonging for all members.
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Together, We Create Memories
Join us in building support networks that empower families, ensuring that no one feels alone on their journey to connection and community.
Weekly Socials
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Monthly Events


​Looking to stay in the loop? All of our upcoming socials and events will be posted here! Be sure to check back monthly for the latest flyers, updates, and announcements. Don't miss out on the fun-there's always something happening!
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​Once Wednesday a month, the group hosts themed social events at St. James Episcopal Church. From karaoke nights, paint parties, and game nights, to DJ dances, these events offer something for everyone. Themes change monthly—Valentine's in February, St. Patrick's Day in March, spring celebrations in April, and so on. These nights are festive, inclusive, and incredibly popular. Michelle is currently working to increase their frequency due to high demand.​​• December, Smithtown Challengers hosts a huge holiday party that brings together individuals with special needs and their families for a festive and heartwarming celebration. With music, dancing, food, and fun activities, it's a night filled with joy, laughter, and holiday spirit—creating cherished memories for everyone involved.​

Floral-themed flyer for "May Meetup" on Wednesday, May 7th, 6-8pm at St James Episcopal Church, $10 tickets, RSVP by April 30.

Calling All Bowlers

Bowling League-Every Monday at Bowlero in Commack​ The league runs every Monday (except major holidays) and is open to all. No registration is required—just show up and join in the fun!

Flyer for Smithtown Challengers Bowling League, inviting special needs participants, $12 for two games, Mondays at 5:45 p.m.

Friendly Fridays

Every Friday, the group gathers at Friendly's in Commack for a casual dinner and a chance to socialize. With around 25–30 participants, this weekly get-together has become a favorite among members and their families. It's relaxed, welcoming, and filled with genuine conversations and lots of smiles

Flyer for "Friendly Fri-Yays" at Friendly's, Commack, NY, inviting to Friday nights at 5:30 p.m. Contact info included.
Empowering Connections for Families
Smithtown Challengers is more than just a community—it's a lifeline for families seeking meaningful connections and support.  Our organization brings together individuals of all abilities, creating a vibrant atmosphere where friendships blossom and laughter is a constant presence. With over 13 years of dedicated service, we understand the unique challenges faced by families, ensuring that every event is thoughtfully designed to cater to the diverse needs of our participants.

Imagine a place where your loved ones can socialize, build confidence, and create cherished memories. Our events offer a safe and inclusive environment, allowing individuals to engage in fun activities while surrounded by peers who understand their journey. Here, parents also find a vital support network, sharing insights and experiences that empower them in navigating complex systems and advocating for their children.

Join us in our mission to foster a sense of belonging within the Smithtown community. By participating in our gatherings, you not only enrich your loved one's life but also strengthen the bonds that tie us all together. Help us spread the word about the joy and inclusive spirit of Smithtown Challengers—your voice can help reach more families in need of a supportive community. Together, we can ensure that everyone feels valued and celebrated, creating a nurturing space where friendships thrive and every individual is encouraged to reach their full potential.
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Smithtown Challengers: Building Connections and Community
Discover a nurturing community where individuals of all abilities find joy and connection. We create an engaging environment tailored to enhance social interactions and build lasting friendships. Our activities are designed with care, ensuring that every participant feels valued and included, allowing them to express themselves and thrive.

Join us for thoughtfully organized events that not only provide fun but also foster personal growth and confidence. Each gathering is an opportunity for your loved ones to engage meaningfully, surrounded by peers who share similar experiences. Parents can also benefit from this supportive atmosphere, exchanging insights and forging friendships that extend beyond our events.

The Smithtown Challengers experience is about more than participation; it's about building a community where everyone feels empowered. Help us share our story and reach families who can benefit from our inclusive environment. Together, we can strengthen our network, ensuring that no one feels isolated on their journey.

Embrace a space where memories are made, friendships are formed, and every individual can thrive. Your involvement is vital to our success—join our mission to make a difference in the lives of families in our community.
Empowering Families Through Meaningful Connections
Smithtown Challengers fosters a vibrant community where individuals of all abilities can thrive alongside their families. Our activities are designed to create enriching social engagement, ensuring that every participant feels included and valued. Here, friendships blossom and laughter fills the air, providing a safe haven for everyone.

Join us for an array of thoughtfully crafted events that cater to diverse interests and needs. Each gathering offers not only opportunities for fun but also a space where young adults can develop self-confidence and create lasting memories. Parents benefit immensely from our supportive environment, as they connect with others navigating similar challenges, sharing valuable insights and building lasting friendships.

Our mission is clear:  to cultivate a welcoming and inclusive community for individuals with all abilities and their families. Through thoughtfully designed social opportunities and active parent involvement, we strive to create a supportive environment where individuals can develop meaningful connections, build confidence, and thrive. We are dedicated to fostering a sense of belonging for both individuals and their families, offering encouragement, shared understanding, and lasting support.

Help us create a stronger network by inviting others to experience the joy and connection that our community offers. Together, let's ensure that every individual feels heard and appreciated, and that no one has to face their journey alone. Your involvement is crucial in shaping a nurturing environment where everyone can shine and thrive.
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Client Feedback

Transformative Experiences Awaiting Your Family

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Tony and Marianna Sgroi
An Inspiring Journey
Smithtown Challengers has been a game changer for our family. The supportive environment allows my daughter to flourish and make lasting friendships!!
Vinny and Cori Degori
A Community Like No Other!
Michelle loves these kids and the kids love her. It gives the participants an opportunity to have a social life that they otherwise would not have. The socialize and they are having a life and that is really what it's all about.
Anna and Chris Guggino
A Lifeline for Families!
Sometimes when you stumble you get hurt, but when we stumbled on Smithtown Challengers we got support, acceptance and friendships. Both my son and I found old friends there and made so many new ones, that we will cherish forever. From the parents to the participants and the amazing staff that bring and support them. From the bowling to the socials to the outings this is truly an amazing organizationr!
Engage & Connect with Smithtown Challengers
Experience the joy of connection at Smithtown Challengers, where individuals of all abilities find a community that embraces and celebrates them. Our organization is dedicated to creating social opportunities that cater to unique needs, ensuring that every member feels valued and included. Engage in enriching activities that promote friendships and personal growth, surrounded by peers who understand your journey.

Join us for our thoughtfully crafted events, where every detail is curated to foster a sense of belonging and joy. These gatherings are not just fun; they are vital for building confidence and creating lasting memories for both participants and their families. As parents, you will discover a supportive network where you can connect with others, share insights, and navigate challenges together.

Your involvement plays a crucial role in amplifying our mission. Help us spread the word about the welcoming environment at Smithtown Challengers. The more families we reach, the stronger our community becomes, allowing us to provide even more meaningful experiences. Together, we can ensure that everyone has the chance to thrive in a nurturing space that celebrates their individuality and fosters authentic connections.

Discover a community where laughter, support, and friendship flourish. Join us in creating unforgettable moments and a bright future for all involved.
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Our Commitment to Support

At Smithtown Challengers, we believe in the power of compassionate support and understanding. Our mission goes beyond organizing events—we create spaces where individuals with diverse abilities can feel truly seen, valued, and empowered. Every interaction, every shared moment is an opportunity to build confidence, foster connections, and celebrate the unique strengths of each individual.

All Testimonials

Sharon Holzman

"The Smithtown Challengers has given my daughter the opportunity to engage with the community and given me a community to look to whenever I have questions. She is one of the younger members (8), but we hope to see more people of all ages to join this amazing group of people.
It's difficult to find inclusive activities for my daughter, and we are now consistent attendants to weekly bowling and the various social gatherings offered throughout the year."

Chrissy Hogan

"The Smithtown Challengers group has been an amazing opportunity for my sister in law to make beautiful friendships, get out into the community, engage with her peers and remain physically, mentally and socially active. Michelle and her team of parent volunteers are kind, welcoming and so fun and creative. Our family is so grateful for this group as it has enhanced not only my sister in laws quality of life, but also giving our family the opportunity to connect with other like-minded parents and caregivers of the amazing young adults who belong to the Smithtown Challengers family. Thank you for creating an uplifting, accepting, and loving environment for us all, and giving us the priceless gift of a second family with you all.

Jeanette Manolarakis

Michelle and the Smithtown Challengers Group as a whole have brought so much joy to my nieces life. She looks forward to the weekly bowling sessions with her friends as well as the Socials. You all truly go above and beyond and we are so thankful. Highly recommend.